The philosophy on becoming an Unconditional Dad relies heavily on the teachings of Carl Rogers and Miller & Rollnick’s contributions to Motivational Interviewing.

An Unconditional Dad is:

  • Dads avoid arguing. We seek to understand.

  • Dads are not dictators. We guide our kids by giving choices and supporting their decision making.

  • Dads don’t get frustrated when our kids are stuck. We know indecision is a natural part of growth and change.

  • Dads don’t always have to be right. Our skill is in guiding others to helpful results.

  • Dads serve as providers full of compassion and love.